Idea Shaping

One idea at a time. Preferably one you love.

This article was published on August 04, 2010.
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"Good ideas are a dime a dozen" or "execution is everything" are popular phrases entrepreneurs roll off their tongues when asked, "Do ideas matter?" While I provisionally agree with both statements, it's just not so black and white. Both phrases are rather misleading. Ideas don't simply materialize out of thin air, and not every idea is worth your time. As popular as it is to dismiss the thought of coming up with a good idea — you know, because it requires sitting around, thinking and suspending activity — it's critical to focus on one idea at a time, preferably your "I'm in Love Idea".

Idea Shaping

One Idea at a Time

You should start by reading The Top Idea In Your Mind (July, 2010), written by Paul Graham just a few weeks ago. In it, PG writes: "I think most people have one top idea in their mind at any given time. That's the idea their thoughts will drift toward when they're allowed to drift freely. And this idea will thus tend to get all the benefit of that type of thinking, while others are starved of it. Which means it's a disaster to let the wrong idea become the top one in your mind."

I'll add my take from my experience. I know far too many entrepreneurs who try to take hold of too many projects at once. When you spread yourself too thin, your mind wanders to and fro, resulting in a bunch of half-assed projects. These people often hit the "reset" button when they've finally reached exhaustion — selling off their domain names and the remains of their half finished projects — only to do it all over again. These people have what I like to call "Entrepreneur's A.D.D." and it's really hard to shake. It was something I battled with early on. Thankfully, there is a cure for "Entrepreneur's A.D.D." and that's to fall in love with a single idea, what I like to call an "I'm in Love Idea". You'll know it when it happens.

"I'm in Love Idea"

In my social life, I've only been in love once and it didn't work out in the end due to long distance and bad timing. In business, I've been in love twice. Once with TypeFrag and now a second time with Carbonmade. Just as in your social life, when you meet someone great you get this gut feeling and your stomach fills up with butterflies, the same is true when an idea clicks with you. You fall in love. Your stomach churns and you can't sleep at night, all because you want to work on the idea so much — the equivalent being wanting to be with someone all the time.

If you're thinking "I'm not really into you", then you should pack away your thoughts and wait for the next idea. If you're at all successful developing your idea then you'll be fully involved with it for at least five to seven years. You don't want to be invested in something that you don't care about enough to commit to for that long. And most importantly, you won't be able to give an idea your best work and attention if you're not in love. Your relationship will suffer and, ultimately, die out.

Execution is Everything?

"Execution is Everything" is a common phrase among entrepreneurs, and I've even touted it in a lecture entitled Ready, FIRE! Aim that I gave at NYU this past Spring. However, there's a difference between executing on an awful idea and executing on an "I'm in Love Idea". Even though I'm not an active angel investor, I get pitched a lot of ideas by entrepreneurs — both readers of these essays and people I meet at events. I hear a lot of great ideas, but I also hear a lot of awful ones.

Awful ideas are usually imagined by someone who has been flailing around for some time looking for an "I'm in Love Idea" and doesn't have the patience to wait any longer. They just want to fool around. As with dating, that's fine for practice and you may improve your skills a bit, but no amount of perfect execution can turn an awful idea into an "I'm in Love Idea".

You might say: Well, the good thing is that web development is so inexpensive that the path you set down on with your awful idea may change a dozen times and several months (or years) later you'll come out the other end with an "I'm in Love Idea." False.

The scary bit is that any person working on an awful idea doesn't know it's awful or they wouldn't continue to work on it. Really, the only hope for them is that they luck into an "I'm in Love Idea" while they think they're already working on The One. They need an epiphany of sorts. Or maybe reading this essay will help wake them from their stupor?

While execution is far from everything — despite the nice ring to the slogan — a better way to phrase it would be that an "I'm in Love Idea" isn't going to do the work for you. You still need to get out there and make it work. On the other hand, an awful idea won't necessarily set you entirely back, but don't expect to get much more than some practice and experience out of it while you search for your "I'm in Love Idea".

Comments

Michael about 1 year ago

TMI (ha!): ''In my social life, I've only been in love once and it didn't work out in the end due to long distance and bad timing''

Agree with everything you write here as I fell into the ''entrepreneur ADD'' trap with the 100 things I've worked on before. I've seen the benefits of focusing on the ''i'm in love idea'' as you say, but I think you overlook one very, very, very important point.

To get to the GOOD idea, you have to climb the ladder of BAD ideas. Meaning, you don't really know what's a good idea until you execute and realize what you were working on was pointless. When you kill that idea off, your bar for ideas becomes higher, thus leading you to work on a bigger and better idea. The more you execute, the higher you climb.

Take a look at any of the entrepreneurs today. All of them came from the pool of bad ideas. Ask any successful entrepreneurs to lay out all the bad ideas that preceded them, and all of them will have stories.

Last point I want to make is that NO entrepreneur should every judge another entrepreneur's idea. Who are we to say whether an idea is bad or good? I thought Foursquare was the worst idea in the history of ideas when Naveen originally pitched it to me. If he listed to my opinion of his idea, it wouldn't be one of the hottest startups in the world right now.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Mike:

''The more you execute, the higher you climb.''

I don't know if I necessarily agree with this. The point I'm trying to make is that you can execute on a bad idea for as long as you want, but will never really get anywhere with it. Your skills will improve, but you can't turn it into gold. You have to execute on a good idea, preferably one you love, to really make a breakout success.

''Last point I want to make is that NO entrepreneur should every judge another entrepreneur's idea.''

This is what investors are doing every day when they look at company's. Granted, they're looking more at the big picture (team, market, etc.) than the idea, but the idea certainly comes into play.

I think it's perfectly acceptable and important to give your honest opinion on peoples' companies and ideas. You just need to be able humbly admit you were wrong if they turn out to be a success. :)

Amber Rae Lambke about 1 year ago

I love this post! (Also obsessed with PG's recent Top Idea post.)

I too fell in the Entrepreneur ADD trap when I first arrived in New York, though for me, this was just part of the process. It was massively helpful to experience different projects, understand what worked, what didn't & why... at times it felt like I was speed dating and it's been painful having to end projects that don't align with my longer-term goals but it's through this experience that I even came to understand what my longer-term goals are. The ADDness also helped me realize my deeper purpose and values, and what matters in any relationship or partnership. (In any relationship, you either treat each other like gold or you don't!) Only through my openness the past few months did I allow myself to stretch limits, learn what I hate, realize what I love and determine what truly matters. Many ''ah ha'' moments later, I've fallen head-over-hells in love with an idea that I feel like I will work on for the rest of my life (or at least the next 5 years). I've never in my life felt like I wanted to be with an idea forever... so you're right, you have to find the one you love! It's amazing when you do!

ps - I'm reading a book called ''Start with WHY'' which is the best book I've read in a WHILE. I think you'd like.

JP about 1 year ago

I'm facing this very thing right now. I feel mentally in shambles and feel like I'm spread too thin. But, I think that I have a great idea that will truly make a difference. Will someone provide feedback on an idea that I have?

http://techneur.com/post/635311152/announcing-mindspread

Thanks!

-JP

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Amber: It sounds as if you were on a ''soul'' discovery journey when you moved to NYC and you found yourself (and your idea)! It's certainly important to dabble in as many things as you can early on to get a sense and feel as to what type of idea you want to work on. I can tell by the energy in your writing.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

JP: It doesn't matter so much what other people think of your idea (early on, anyway), but rather that in the depths of your heart you're In Love. If you feel this emotion then your idea will work out just fine in the end with hard work.

Andrew Parker about 1 year ago

Nice post Spencer. It's clear to be from the way you've executed that you do have your ''I'm in Love Idea''... the way you throw yourself into it. It's great and inspiring.

In your post I get the sense that you think that there are ideas in that are objectively good or awful. I'm not sure this is true. I feel like some ideas that I think are terrible, genuinely awful, like Cash 4 Gold or like Slot Machines, are ''good'' ideas in the hands of the right passionate entrepreneurs that execute like crazy.

I suppose if +90% of people think an idea is bad then it is objectively bad... but even then I think great entrepreneurs can make them successful, as long as they make them their own.

steve about 1 year ago

I'm working on my second idea right now at the point. Some how once you have this idea in your head and where ever you go, it gives you feedback or prove that your idea has got to work. It urges you to get it out there. Like they said '' you attract what you seek'' My question is, how do you deal with it?

Brian Wang about 1 year ago

''The scary bit is that any person working on an awful idea doesn't know it's awful or they wouldn't continue to work on it. Really, the only hope for them is that they luck into an ''I'm in Love Idea'' while they think they're already working on The One.''

I think a distinction needs to be made here. Just because an idea isn't your ''I'm In Love'' idea doesn't mean it's necessarily an awful one, or vice versa. It's entirely possible for somebody to be in love with an awful idea, only discovering how bad it is once they begin executing on it. ''I'm in Love'' idea != a great idea.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Andrew: I thought about addressing so-called ''in-between ideas'', but my point stands that if you're not In Love with the idea then it's an awful idea. The phrasing may be a bit harsh, but it's really about commitment and about being 100% behind the idea you're working on.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Brian: If you have an ''I'm In Love'' idea and it's close to great then you have a way better shot than having the same level of idea that you're not in love with. Love is what can carry you through the hard times and can bring out the greatness in the idea.

Josh about 1 year ago

Great post. I have enjoyed al that you have written so far, especially the post about writing. Coming to that I am obsessed with your blog design, and I am wondering whether it is wordpress powered ? If not what are you using?

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Josh: Thanks! It's actually a custom blog design with a custom Content Management System that we built internally at Carbonmade.

Rahul about 1 year ago

Nice post. The entrepreneur's ADD reminds me of my boss, who consistently comes up with sort of cool ideas for products and even starts to work on some of them, but just as he's about to get to the point where the idea might lift off, he gets bored or distracted with his next idea. It's too bad, because some of his ideas are actually pretty interesting.

Related: Seth Godin's book ''The Dip'', which also talks about weathering the storm of your job/business/product in order to figure out whether it's the one you're in love with.

Brian Wang about 1 year ago

Spencer, I'm totally in agreement with you. Passion for the idea is conventionally touted as what gets you through the valleys of the business.

I just find a disconnect when you say hopefully that person with the awful idea finds the one they're truly in love with. The end of that sentence describes that person as thinking they're already working on ''The One.''

Probably just nitpicking here :)

Christina Cacioppo about 1 year ago

To echo – and believe in! – many of the prior comments: lovely post, Spencer. It does seem that having a consuming passion and living in your own reality-distortion field are reasonable prerequisites for entrepreneurial success, as crazy as it sounds, and you've articulated that well.

In the ''Execution is Everything'' section, you seem to believe side projects and the ''let's build this and see if it works''-sort of ideas are often distractions from the One, True Idea. I'm not sure I buy it.

Time is precious, and working on ''the wrong thing'' is as detrimental as it is consuming. Yet I think there's much to recommend a ''fail fast and succeed sooner'' mindset. If someone is mulling over an idea to determine if it's The One, I think they should jump and see where they land. If their mind starts to drift soon after, shift or abandon that original idea. Move on.

Executing well on the ''fail fast and succeed sooner'' ethos requires strong discipline, but when done well, I think it's extraordinarily powerful.

Amine about 1 year ago

I'm in love with the ideas you're putting forward ;)

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Rahul: Interesting comment. Entrepreneur's A.D.D. can certainly extend to internal company projects as well. We even see this sometimes at Carbonmade as we're often jumping between projects.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Christina: The problem is that when one encourages people to try out a lot of things and see what works or not, they're feeding their Entrepreneur's A.D.D. -- causing them to lose focus. A lot of entrepreneurs get lost in their own ideas and are better at conceiving ideas than following through.

That's why I encourage that people don't spread themselves too thin, because it allows them subconsciously to not follow through with their ideas and give up: ''Oh, the next one right around the corner will work out better'' or ''The other idea I have is more worth my time.'' These phrases will creep into their heads and they won't get anything done. I encourage people to sit back and have a good think on their idea before jumping in. Preferably, they'll be so In Love with the idea they come up with that they'll follow through with it to the end and focus on nothing else.

Human beings are not monogamous by nature, but it's the only way that works in our society. It's the same way with building Internet businesses.

Nick Lawhead about 1 year ago

It seems that we are all in agreement that this is a great post. Intuitively, I understand it is better to do one thing with excellence - love the idea. But it is far easier said than done. Clients, projects, unexpected changes all conspire to distract us everyday. A post like this one is a good reminder of the need to focus.

Impressive insight. Keep up the good work.

@nlawhead

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Nick: It's definitely easier said than done. I don't deny that at all. Being In Love with the idea, job, client, etc., will help you focus, though.

Wesley Verhoeve about 1 year ago

Another great post Spencer. As with most folks like ourselves I too am prone to get a bit ADD, but in the last few years I've found a rhythm where I have embraced minimalism in many areas of my life, purging and getting rid of project/ideas/stuff to focus fully on the ideas I can really get behind. It's a great feeling. I have to repeat it every few months, just to stay the course.

Wesley Verhoeve about 1 year ago

Oh, and I have no idea what the subject of the picture in this post is haha

Will about 1 year ago

Great article! And thanks for mentioning Paul Graham's article as that was a good read too.

My thoughts;

  1. Not every ''I'm in love idea'' will take up the next 5-7 years of your life right? If one comes across an idea that can be implemented in 2 months, you don't need to do a whole long-term commitment thing in seeing through on that idea.

  2. I think what people have tried to mention before is that it may take some time to realise it is the ''I'm in love idea''. Just like love right? It starts off with butterflies and endless hours of mental conversations inside your head before you truly say (at least out loud) that you're in love.

I guess what I'm saying is there is still something in just throwing it up against the wall and seeing if it sticks... just make sure you've got those butterflies fluttering in there!

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Will:

  1. I came up with 5-7 years is that's the typical life-time of most Internet businesses before they're sold. I completely disagree with you that it's possible to implement an idea in 2 months. You can maybe get an initial prototype out in that amount of time, but you'll never be able to stretch its legs in that little time.

  2. I think you agree with me here. The butterflies and endless hours are love whether your heart knows it yet or not. :)

Will about 1 year ago

Thanks for your reply Spencer, with regards to 1, I guess I was referring to any kind of entrepreneurial project, not necessarily a web startup per se.

Aaron Schultz about 1 year ago

When I have an idea for a poem or lyrical essay and write out the first draft, it is a draft of ideas, mostly bad. Sometimes I toss out everything except for one or two lines. These lines are usually ones that express the original emotion or moment that compelled me to write, express and explore, in the first place. So, I take these lines and generate a new version, a version that is (hopefully) closer to the original ''idea'' that compelled me to write in the first place. Finally, I submit my idea to others for constructive criticism and further mold it into existence. This process can happen over and over until the idea matures and I find the ''I'm in love idea.''

My point being that a good idea doesn't just happen, it takes cultivation and refinement. Even in the midst of something awful (my first draft) there is a nugget of beauty.

Someone isn't just struck with a big world-altering idea. It takes hard work, experience (failure and success), help and wisdom.

Spencer Fry about 1 year ago

Aaron: I like your process. It's obviously important and good to refine any idea you come up with. Nobody is hit with an epiphany and understands their idea fully from conception stage.